We've been dating for 4 months and it's a long distance relationship. Each time he comes he stays at my place and does nothing to help financially. Am not complaining but my friends tell me if i he doesn't spend his money on me ,he spends it on someone else. Once he mentioned that it's rare to find a lady who can shelter you and feed you without asking for money so he concluded that i truly love him. Am worried does he love me or he loves the independence in me? Is this love or exploitation?
To be honest, I find the situation very dubious. I agree that you should try not to give him money for a while and observe his reaction. I hope, though, that it's true love and that he's not actually using you. Maybe he's not a gigolo. I'm also sorry that the relationship from the beginning is a long-distance one. I was luckier than you probably were. I'm actually waiting for you to answer me if you use my advice. I managed to find my soul mate with the help of this site https://asianfriendly.com/blog/. Now I can't even say there's no love. It exists if you know where to look. If to answer how I know it's pure, money will never become a problem for you and me. Because we have "our" budget, and we both get involved as much as we can.