We've been dating for 4 months and it's a long distance relationship. Each time he comes he stays at my place and does nothing to help financially. Am not complaining but my friends tell me if i he doesn't spend his money on me ,he spends it on someone else. Once he mentioned that it's rare to find a lady who can shelter you and feed you without asking for money so he concluded that i truly love him. Am worried does he love me or he loves the independence in me? Is this love or exploitation?