Posted by Paul Ochieng

we broke up with my Ex , and luckyly i got another one bt i find it difficult coz my ex always threatens my current girlfriend that if she does nt break with me she will beat 2 death , how can i cope up with such, plz help


Hello Ochieng,

I am sorry to hear about what you and your girlfriend are going through.

This is a serious issue that needs to be taken with the seriousness it deserves. Death threats need to be reported to relevant authorities so that necessary course of action can be taken. Kindly report the issue to the nearest police station or relevant authories so that your current girlfriend can get protection. She has not wronged anyone; hence, she does not deserve to be put in such a position.

I hope you get urgent help from the relevant authorities especially the police.

As we begin the 2017 countdown, I wish you and your girlfriend love, prosperity, health and above all, security.



Happy new year to you Ochieng.

Congratulations on your new relationship. Its always a good feeling when one finds new love.

Sorry that you still have your ex to deal with. Moving on from a break up can be difficult. A lot of people are not able to deal with the pain frustration, disappointment and sometimes even the depression. And therefore it can bring the worst out of them.

It is ok to think about what went wrong, but don't obsess over it. Don't fight your feelings - accept them, and let them out gently. It can be hard to stop thinking about it, but try to take your mind off it as much as you can. Remember that your end goal is to move on.

Since you know you ex, it would be important for you to access the threat if its credible. If you think it is, do not hesitate to report to the authorities as soon as possible. It would be therefore important for you to save any threatening messages or conversations that you or your partner has had with your Ex.

If you think that is not credible and its just a jilted lover trying to frustrate you because she can't move on, then it would be wise to keep away from her and if possible cu of any communication and instead, try to concentrate on your relationship and trying to make it blossom.

All the best to both of you and may you have a more successful 2017.