Posted by Rapemo

There is this a girl I think likes me and I like her too but how do I know for sure she likes me. I fear rejection please help.


Hello Rapema,

First, you need to develop friendship with this girl. Get to know her as a friend, who is she, what are her goals, values and principles. Getting to know her better will help you know if she feels the same as you do. It will also help you make a informed decision on whether to go ahead and approach her for a relationship or not. Check out this article that can help you build a friendship with her:

Rapema, while you fear rejection, sometimes the person you want does not share the same feelings as you do. Again, if you don’t try, you’ll never know and you may end up regretting not having the courage to speak to them. If the person is not interested talking to you, don’t take it personally. Respect their decision and move on.

Wish the best.

Love Matters Team.


It's ok, just go and talk to her. Maybe she wants to talk to you but she must be feeling shy. Don't fear for rejection, if you got rejected you will not feel sad, because you will get that confidence to talk to other girls.