Relationships

Posted by Dan Magrius

Please i really don't know what to do so i need advice.
Some days a go my girl friend told me that she is tired of being with two guys so i ask what she was meaning and she said it me and her old boyfriend so i still don't know what i should do because i haven't give't any reply yet.

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Hey there..

I can imagine the dilemma you are in. Sometimes relationships do experience challenges and especially when expectations are not well spelt.

Talk to your girlfriend,find out what is going on and how she want the relationship to move on.

If she does not want to continue with this relationship...respect her decision and find ways to heal and move on.

If she want to continue with you, have a candid conversation on how she intend to deal with the ex boyfriend. Also both of you share what you expect from this relationship.

Here are some tips on how to communcare with your partner;- https://lovematters.co.ke/resource/talking-your-partner

All the best.

Love Matters Team.

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Hey there..

I can imagine the dilemma you are in. Sometimes relationships do experience challenges and especially when expectations are not well spelt.

Talk to your girlfriend,find out what is going on and how she want the relationship to move on.

If she does not want to continue with this relationship...respect her decision and find ways to heal and move on.

If she want to continue with you, have a candid conversation on how she intend to deal with the ex boyfriend. Also both of you share what you expect from this relationship.

Here are some tips on how to communcare with your partner;- https://lovematters.co.ke/resource/talking-your-partner

All the best.

Love Matters Team.

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Hi man kindly read the red light and take action,you the second boyfriend,she lovers her first guy let her go love cannot be shared!Find your place an another girls heart!!

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What you should be asking yourself is this: "Do I deserve to be cheated on ?", "Can I truly be in love with a serial cheater ?", "Who else don't I know about ?", "Is this her way of trying to get me to break up with her for cheating so she won't feel as guilty ?", etc.
The facts are that she is in love with someone else (possibly alongside you), and considers herself "with" him as well. You are worth more than this. You deserve the loyalty you provide, please don't let her acts make you tarnished and bitter (don't cheat in return).
Just try to be a mature adult and leave before you can be hurt further. There is better out there.