Posted by Newton

My name is Newton, the last time I was in a relationship was three years ago and I have really been looking forward to be in one but its like I lost my game. I mean am good with talking to a lady but when I try telling them how I feel, it bounces on my face. I really need your help?


Dear Newton,

Thank you for reaching out to us. There is no one way to let a person you love know exactly how you feel towards them, however you can communicate your feelings in different ways. But even before you share your feelings, it is important that you get to know the girl well and whether she feels the same way about you. Be friends first, get to know as much as you can about her, know if she is in another relationship or not and if she is interested being in a relationship.

It is also important to know the right time to share your feelings and this will depend on how you have known the girl. It is okay to know that not all girls that you have feelings for will give you a positive feedback. So be prepared for any response and that does not mean that you have "lost your game" and just that probably the girls you are meeting don't share the same feelings.

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Love Matters Team.