Posted by Ayomide

My girlfriend change a lots to me. Yes she caught me cheating maybe via my phone chat, I Promise to change so many times but my past relationships wasn’t this stressful at least she doesn’t check my phone like she did but cheated . But this one won’t cheat, she tells me everything and she do whatever I want but she changed because she thinks I don’t care about her. I had to go over and over to her to let her know am a changed person and how much I cared about her, but she did not agree at first. She told me she lost feelings because she thinks I don’t care, I tried all to do make sure we get back together because i don’t wanna lose her. Now we’re back but am not still happy because she doesn’t behave the way she does again and am thinking of breaking up again because I was thinking she doesn’t love me anymore but it’s add . What’s y’all opinion




Dear Ayomide,

A healthy relationship is built by two people who have an open and honest communication, trust each other and there is mutual respect for each other. In your case, due to previous cheating experiences, trust has been broken, hence the way the relationship is. Trust need to be re-built which is not an easy task and requires the two partner's involvement.

Perhaps, you may want to spend quality time with your partner, have a heart to heart conversation, get to know what she want then make an informed decision.

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All the best.

Love Matters Team.


Just have a control on your heart and your feelings. You are cheating on her twice or thrice then you are not in love with her. You are playing with her and her feelings.