Safe Sex

Posted by Anonymous

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5years now.Of late we've been having a rough patch which led me to cheating once and the condom broke. Before you come out at me ans insult me..I feel so remorseful and regretful and I don't know what to do because I don't think he would ever cheat on me and I love him so much I would never want to lose him.What should I do?I wouldn't want to give him any STDs or HIV

Answer
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Then you should go and test yourself before you engage in any sexual activity as you said you don't want to hurt him... It's better to be sure than to be sorry or to be hurtful

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Hi,

Thank you for having the courage to share that with us.

It would be important for you to go for a tests to make sure you did contract any infection which you can pass to him. In the meantime you can choose to abstain from sex or continue using protection whichever option is workable with you.

We are humans and sometimes mistakes happen and the most important thing is not to dwell in them but to learn from them and became better versions of ourselves. Its a good thing that you acknowledge your mistake and are remorseful about it, you now need to find a way to forgive yourself and move on.

You can use the search bar on our website to find out the nearest clinic to your location where you can access medical attention. While at it you can ask the health care provider to give you a condom demonstration so that you learn the proper use of a condom for better future use.

Learn more on safe sex here https://lovematters.co.ke/resource/safe-sex .

All the best to you.