Sex

Posted by Cara

I've been masturbating since I was 14, I'm 25 now. Whenever I've had sex everything happens as expected, I get aroused and wet but dont get an orgasm at the end of it all, this only happens when I masturbate( used to masturbate, I managed to stop) is this a case of sexual dysfunction or am I just one among many women who can't get an orgasm through penetrative sex.

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Dear Cara,

First, there is nothing wrong with masturbation, actually masturbation is one of the safest, easiest forms of sex. It's about getting to know your body and your likes and dislikes. This way, you can also teach your partner what you enjoy when you have sex. A significant number of women do not experience sexual orgasm through penetrative sex. Perhaps you can teach your partner what makes you get to orgasm; here are some tips your partner can use to ensure you get to orgasm: https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/how-do-i-mas...

Also, check out this article on female orgasm: https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/orgasms/female-orgasms-top-fiv...

Love Matters Team.