Posted by Vichi

I'm not sure if am in a relationship or not. He has never told me he loves me, we've never been on a date but we go clubbing sometimes. We talk on the phone for hours almost about everything our lives and all. Sex is out of this world he satisfies he says the same too. My problem is I don't trust him at all, he is a very well known guy around and on social media and mostly to ladies. I respect his privacy a lot,but the fact that I can't touch his phone even just to play music makes me skeptical. Another thing am financially independent but one needs help now and then ...he doesn't even consider me I have to ask him all the time. To be honest the only reason am still with him is because of the sex and I think I love him am not even certain other than that.


Hi Vichi, thank you so much for reaching out to us and sharing your story with us. So glad to hear that you seem to have found happiness. It seems that you and this person need to have an Open and Honest conversation about how you feel, what you want, and how you can improve on what you have. Be open and vulnerable with your partner but also allow them to be open and vulnerable with you as well. Communication really helps build relationships of all kinds but also helps you sort out any issues that could come up.