Posted by tabby

I was in love with a guy but he have just texted me claiming that we were not in any relationship


Dear Tabby,

There is a difference between being in love and being in a relationship. You can be in love with someone but unless the other person shares the same feelings as you and is willing to be in a relationship with you, you cannot claim to be in a relationship. You could also be getting intimate with someone but that does not mean that you are in a relationship.

Sharing both your expectations before you start the relationship can help to address many issues. It is also important to know if the person shares the same feeling of love as you and not infatuation.

Tabby, for now you can only accept the guy decision to move on and you find ways to cope with the heart break. Below article has tips on how you can go about it:-

Love Matters Team.