Posted by kenyiismail

i have a girlfriend and i love her and she says that i loves me back, the problem is that am schooling and also i have a feeling of marrying her wright away and she needs it too yet if i marry i will nt be going to school what should i do marry her or continue my studies and giveup her i need advice thank you.


Dear Kenyi,

First, there is nothing wrong being in a relationship, however you should be able to make priorities at every point in your life. At this point in your life, what is your priority: school or relationship?

Perhaps, you need to ask yourself some few questions:- what does it mean for you to get married now, are you in a position to balance both the marriage and education, what does it mean if you choose education? Is your girl willing to wait for you till you finish your studies?

One of the key element of a healthy relationship is open and honest communication, it's therefore important that you have a candid conversation with your partner, let her know what your thoughts are and the support you would like from her. Depending on her response, make an informed decision.

Wish you the best.

Love Matters team.