Posted by NYAMBATI

I have been in a relationship for almost seven months now, of recent I came to realize that my girlfriend had been cheating on me. When I asked her she at first ignored but later came to agreement, we broke since my trust in her got lost. After a while she rang me then confesed, I forgave her. Her friend rang me and told me that she told her that she is just cheating me claiming to love me yet she doesn't.How can I know that this girl mean what she is saying cause an totally confused since she usually tells me that she is still loves so much


Hello Nyambati,

I am sorry for what you are going, it is not easy to find out that your partner has been cheating on you. I am glad that you were able to talk about the issue, I also agree with you that cheating does destroy the trust that you have build over the time. When you are hurt sometimes it may be difficult to think straight and make a wise decision.

Perhaps, you need to give your self time to go through this period, then you can make out whether she is saying the truth or not. As you do that, you need to think of what you want as Nyambati. Do you want to forgive her and continue with the relationship? Or do you want to end the relationship. If you decide to have her back, how are you going to deal with the issue? So think about this carefully and make an informed decision.

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