Relationships

Posted by aluso Brian

since I broke up with my ex 3 months ago I have tried to move on but the feelings are still there. we have been into a serious dating for 2.7 years. I can't move on and this feeling has totally bared me from falling into love with any other lady! I'm dying a slow death! help me!!!!

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Hi Brian,

Sorry for the heartbreak you are going through. It can be really difficult when you loved someone and then you get to a point the relationship ends.

People invest in time and emotions and such heartache can really bring one down.

There is no cure for heartache and what you are going through is normal. It takes time.

Make sure you spend some time being sad, it’s important you honor your feelings, but then there is a point where you need to start doing something else. You need to start spending some time working on you. Find a hobby, work harder at work, go to the gym, do that thing you have been talking about for months but haven't. Spend time with family and friends go out.

The idea is that you need to fall in love with yourself a bit. Not only will this help you in other areas of life but when people are happy and confidant they are attractive to new partners. When you are happy people will be lining up around the block to be a part of it and join in with you. That way you can start to find a new partner that will be better suited for you and love you the way you deserve to be loved.

Read more here: https://lovematters.co.ke/resource/coping-break