Posted by Nambuye

Hi,was in a relationship with this working guy for about four months I told him I was a virgin and wouldn't have sex till marriage but he insisted on it I broke up with has been a year now I got into another relationship with a university student last month and now the ex is back texting me thinking I don't recognize its him I showed him I know who he is we even had to lash out at each other now after about a week he sends me some girl's naked photos on messenger then tells me it's a wrong number. On top of that Two weeks ago my boyfriend asked for some money to pay for school fees claiming he'll pay backwhich I send him now today he wants more money to do something else and for am just a house help I don't really earn much so is he just using me or what and what should I do about the ex pliz help me am confused


Dear Nambuye,

My question to you is what is it that you want? Do you want your ex back or do you want to stay in your current relationship? You need to understand what you want so that you can know what to do with your Ex and current boyfriends. If you decide to keep the current relationship, then you may want to know how to deal with your Ex to ensure he does not affect your relationship. In this article are a few tips on how to deal with your Ex:

Nambuye, remember you are the only who can choose what you want. Choose wisely and make use of your time to make the relationship strong and healthy.

Check the response on the issue of money in your earlier message.

Love Matters Team.