Relationships

Posted by Yita

Hi,i have this problem where my boyfriend visits me at home without ever buying a gift,am not asking for much just maybe some snacks,am not really opportuned to go out on dates cause of house chores and I do visit him too,most times am tempted to buy him stuffs like drinks, snacks but I end up not doing that because I don't think it's right for me to start the process,it's really frustrating,so do I talk to him about it or just keep shut but it's really eating me up, please help

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Hi Yita, thank you so much for reaching out to us. It seems that you and your partner have different love languages. Love presents in different ways. We all have love Languages. These are the ways in which we express love for our loved ones. These love languages are Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, and Physical Touch. It seems that you express love and interpret affection as receiving gifts. Which is perfectly normal. Have a conversation with your partner and try and find out what they like, what excites them, what they do not like. Once you get to know all this, you will learn their love language. Once you learn their love language and learn to speak it, everything else will fall in place

This article has more information on these love languages and how they present. Go through it and let us know if you still have any questions.
https://lovemattersafrica.com/love-relationships/happy-relationships/do-...