Relationships

Posted by mercyline

hi there.. I hav bin dating a guy fo 2yrs now. I luv him but the problem is communication btwn us.. smtyms I kol him but he doesn't pick up or even reply my texts.. it can go on for 2-3 days den his response wil b, being bzy..wen i ask some questions he gets angry n thnks that i dnt trust him.. it's a distant relnship n am trying to be committed to it but it's like am in it alone.. wat shld I du

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Hi Mercyline, sorry that things are not working out in your relationship.

Long distance relationship can be difficult. Most people cannot do long-distance for an infinite period of time. But a large number of us could deal with a partner being away for a few months at a time.

your partner and you need to talk very honestly about your needs and whether or not they can be met in a long-distance set-up.

Communication is a two-way street: listening is just as important as talking. And when you listen, you should really listen so you can really understand what the other person is saying. So don’t interrupt. And don’t just think about what you want to say next. You should also discuss fidelity which unfortunately is a particularly challenging aspect of long-distance romances.

Talk Honestly about how you feel about his behaviour. Inform him how it makes you feel. Depending on ow he responds you will be able to decide whether he is invested in the relationship or he is taking you for granted.

If you feel you are giving more than you are getting, or if you feel that the relationship is draining you, then its time you start thinking about breaking up as an option. Here is an article that can help https://lovematters.co.ke/resource/breaking-up .

If you feel like you want to work on your relationship some more here is another article that can help with that https://lovematters.co.ke/news/long-distance-love-keep-it-hot-proven-tec... .