Posted by Anonymous

hi av been dating a girl for 8 months .at first i loved her but some days back i came to know her character .she cant express her self to me.its as if she fears me.when we have some issues and sit down and talk she just keeps quiet which makes me feel soo bad.most of the time when we are together i talk alone and the only participation from her is laughing.i have tried my level best to change her bt she dosent care.i am fed up i dont feel any love .but i know she loves me.whenever am fed up and stays quiet she cries alot and her friends come to me asking me to cool me how to leave her without hurting her


Hi Lawre, sorry that your relationship is not working.

People have different characters and hers maybe is that she is not talkative and that might be difficult to change.

If you have made up your mind that you want to break up then there are a few things that you need to note.

There is no easy way to break up or minimize the pain. If you break up with her then there is going to be heart break and therefore pain cannot be avoided.

Do your homework. Know the reasons why you’re breaking up, because if you’re partner isn’t expecting this piece of bad news from you, you’ll end up doing a lot of explaining.

Do it in person. Do not break up over email or SMS or telephone or Skype unless the situation demands it. These are just a few tips about how you can break up. You can find more here .

Be sure to be sensitive to her feelings as this can be a very painful experience for anyone.