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Posted by Sophy

Hey I think there's a problem in my relationship its been an year within it but now my man is acting weird he doesn't even find his tym to text me it can go like 3 days without texting me nor talking to me and all this makes me to be confused what is wrong when am with him the only thing he can do is sex then afterwards he keeps on being muted unless u ask him a question that's wen he will talk ,at some point I do ask him why he doesn't like talking to me and would be jus like as for me I don't like communicating and that thing bothers me what could be wrong is it that he's fed up

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Hello Sophy, thank you so much for sharing this issue with us. People communicate in different ways, whereas some people communicate constantly some only do so rarely. All this is perfectly fine and normal. However, in a relationship with these two kind of people there needs to be a balance.
Hello Saiyanastro, thank you for reaching out to us. We are sorry you are going through such a hard time.
Since the issue is clearly weighing heavily on you, have an open and honest conversation with your partner. Explain how their actions are affecting you and the relationship. Try not to be confrontational because that would put them on the defensive and the resulting conversation would not be productive. Be ready to listen to their fears and feelings and respond to them as well.
This article has some pointers that could help you learn how to better communicate.
https://lovemattersafrica.com/love-relationships/happy-relationships/bet...