Hello once again,thanks for your reply to my previous question.My problem again is that i feel this girl so much that am in love with her indirectly.Whenever am jazzing with her,i feel like telling her how i feel about her but i finally it very hard.Is it because i have never corned a girl that i have this fear or And what should do to remove this shyness?
We are grateful you are asking questions on our forum.
We were able to respond to your issue yesterday, our response was.
Reaching out to people that you are attracted to can be difficult because of the fear of being rejected. However, they are no different than how would approach a friend, family or other person. The initial hello and coming up with small talk is the same idea except the person is front of you is attractive.
The best way to do this when you are nervous is to talk to people who share interest. Do they go to school with you? Are they working? Did you meet them at the movies? This way there is already a commonality between you and it gives you the first conversation topic. Find other people who like what you like and try to mingle from there.
Otherwise, just be honest. Tell them who you are, why you approached the (they said something smart, they like the same team, you find them beautiful etc.) and then build the conversation from there. Tell them about yourself, and ask questions about them. You are attracted to them and ideally as you learn more about them you will become interested in them.
Everyone has nerves and the girls know that. They will be flattered that you even tried to reach out and talk.