Posted by Camilla

Hello Dr Chris,
Kindly advise. Some time back I had a chance encounter with a guy and a few months later we went out on 2 amazing dates. After that, radio silence. He didn't text or call, neither did I. This went on for days and on the third week I got the courage to ask what happened? He explained that he ran into his ex at a joint he frequents and the ex went through his messages and deleted my number along with the messages. So after not hearing back after a day or two he thought he would not hear from me again.
I really like the guy and would like to re-connect. At the same time, I don't want to come across as needy or get into a situation where I arrived late to the party and he has already moved on.


Dear Camilla,

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