Posted by Kirau

Hae Love Matters, I think my partner is cheating on me with my friend. I am very hurt since I saw some text message saying I enjoyed your company yesterday yet we were to meet and she didnt come. she was with the other guy. I want to break up with her bcz this is not the first time this had happened.


Dear Kirau,

I am sorry to hear that. Cheating means breaking the rules you have agreed on in a committed relationship. So when you say you think your partner is cheating is there specific rule you agreed upon she has broken? This will help you to have a conversation with her and find the reasons as to why she broke the rule.

Open and honest communication is a key element in any relationship: cheating of any form can cause a lot of hurt feelings in a relationship and can even lead to break-up. It can also affect communication. It is therefore important that you talk to your partner, let her know your feelings, find out if she is still into the relationship, if yes address your concerns and feelings together.

If you feel that you dont want to make the relationship, you can let her know that you want to end the relationship. Check out this article with insights on breaking up :

Love Matters Team.