Posted by dsnydsj

Been the first time of meeting a lad. What can I do to make her mine what and what can I tell her to be mine forever.

From Dekunle


Hi Dekunle,

That's an interesting question,

There are no specific words that I can train you to tell a person so they can like you. Its all about being confident and making conversation to learn about each other so that you create an interest.

It all starts with dating. If the person you're interested in responds positively to your cues, you might want to ask them out on a date. You don't have to be a man to ask someone out - women can do it too, so don't be shy!

Before planning a date, find out what they like doing - maybe watching movies or sports games, going to museums, walking, or dancing. It's a good idea to meet in a quiet place near where you live, somewhere you can relax and talk easily.

Remember, dates don't have to be fancy or expensive. They can be simple, like meeting at a tea stall and then taking a walk in the park.

First dates are often a bit tense. Maybe you're very nervous, or feel like you've got butterflies in your stomach. There could be awkward moments on your first date - when you think you've said something silly or when you just don't know what else to say. Don't worry too much: the key is to stay calm.

Once you've realized that you both like spending time together, you can start thinking about another date. It doesn't always have to be your responsibility to decide what to do - you can put the ball in their court too. Over the next few meetings, try finding out more about them, about their likes and dislikes, their past, and their dreams for the future.

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